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                               Butler & Household Manager (Rotational) 

East Coast USA & Bahamas

Type: Land-based / Permanent

Location: Caribbean

Salary: $150,000 – $175,000 DOE

Start Date: ASAP

Posted: 14th September 2026

Travelling Butler & Household Manager (Rotational) | East Coast, USA & Bahamas | $150,000–$180,000

A highly successful private family is seeking an experienced Butler & Household Manager to join their established household team on a rotational basis.

The family has four residences across the United States, and this position will involve regular travel between the properties depending on the family’s movements and requirements.

The successful candidate should be based on the East Coast of the USA and will form part of a rotational team of three, working together to ensure the family receives seamless support wherever they are in residence.

This is an excellent opportunity for an experienced private service professional who enjoys variety, travel and delivering exceptional standards within a fast-moving UHNW environment.

The Role

This is a hands-on position combining traditional butler service, household management and personal support.

Working as part of the three-person rotational team, you will travel between the family’s US residences and provide consistent support to the principal and family.

Responsibilities will include:

  • Delivering exceptional formal and informal food and beverage service
  • Travelling between the family’s fours residences according to their schedule
  • Supporting the principal with day-to-day personal requirements, errands and lifestyle assistance
  • Packing and unpacking for the principal and family when travelling
  • Assisting with entertaining, events and guest service
  • Ensuring each residence is fully prepared ahead of the family’s arrival
  • Working closely with household teams across the different properties to maintain consistent standards
  • Overseeing day-to-day household requirements when in residence
  • Providing steward/ess-style service onboard the principal’s private aircraft when required
  • Travelling with the principal and family as required
  • Remaining flexible and adaptable to changing schedules and locations

The Ideal Candidate

We are looking for someone with a genuine background in high-level private service who iscomfortable moving between residences and adapting quickly to different environments.

The ideal candidate will have:

  • Previous experience within a UHNW private household, family office, superyacht or comparable luxury environment
  • Strong Butler and food & beverage service skills, including formal service
  • Previous experience travelling with a principal or working across multiple residences
  • Excellent household management and organisational skills
  • A highly polished, discreet and professional manner
  • The ability to work both independently and collaboratively as part of a rotational team
  • Strong attention to detail and the ability to anticipate the family’s requirements
  • A flexible approach to working hours, locations and travel
  • Excellent longevity and references from previous positions

Essential Requirements

  • US Passport or Green Card
  • Must already be based on the East Coast, USA
  • Full driving licence
  • Able and willing to travel extensively within the United States
  • Comfortable working across multiple private residences
  • Flexible with working hours and the requirements of a rotational position

Package

  • Salary: $150,000–$180,000 DOE
  • Discretionary annual bonus, typically around 10%
  • 100% employer-paid health insurance
  • Dental and vision insurance
  • 401(k) with employer match
  • 10 days paid time off
  • Three-person rotational team
  • Regular travel between four US residences
  • Excellent long-term career progression within an established private office

This would particularly suit an experienced Butler or Household Manager who enjoys being on the move rather than based permanently within one residence and is looking for a long-term position within a professional and well-established private household.

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Natasha Slade

Natasha Slade

Head of Land Based

+44 7849 777290

natasha@bespokecrew.com

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Natasha Slade

Natasha Slade

Head of Land Based

+44 7849 777290

natasha@bespokecrew.com

About Tash
Before swapping deck shoes for desk life, I spent six incredible years working on private and charter yachts. In 2021, I decided it was time to hang up my passport and come back down to earth, taking with me the standards, work ethic, and long-standing relationships that yachting instils.

With a strong background in hospitality, moving into recruitment felt like a natural next step. Over the following four years, I built my career in recruitment, developing a people-first, detail-driven approach while gaining a solid understanding of what it takes to place individuals into roles where they can genuinely thrive.

Combining my time on board with my newly acquired recruitment skills, moving into yacht recruitment felt like the perfect fit. In September 2024, I joined Bespoke Crew, where I successfully grew an exterior desk. During this time, I became increasingly involved with and intrigued by the land-based division, which was already gaining momentum and showing huge potential.

As the land-based side of the business grew rapidly, supporting private households, family offices, private islands, estates, waterside properties, and yacht management companies, I was given the opportunity to bring all my experience together and take the division forward. From senior household staff and operational professionals to shore-side roles within management structures, my focus is on bridging the gap between lifestyle-driven service and professional operations.

What drives me is simple: matching the right people with the right environments. Having lived the lifestyle myself, I understand what sits behind a CV, the long seasons, high expectations, absolute discretion, and the importance of cultural fit. Whether you’re building a trusted team within a private household or management company, or looking for your next step after yachting or hospitality, I’m here to make the process personal, professional, and effective.

Favourite country visited while in the industry and why?
Would have to be Sri-Lanka, it’s the most cultured country I was lucky enough to visit, we were based in the southeast for a month in between trips, so got to travel right through from Galle down to Matara which is a beautiful surf town, the locals were so friendly. We also did a big crew trip to Yala National Park which is Sri Lanka’s most famous wildlife park, it was incredible.

Funniest memory?
Performing Spice Girls “Wanna B” with the Interior Crew for a New Years Got Talent Special. I was Mel B and had to perform the whole rap chorus on my own in front of the whole charter crowd and crew.. It was as horrendous as it sounds!

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